Saturday, September 15, 2007

The Adventure to the Canadian Rockies

We went to the beautiful Canadian Rockies, and visited 3 National Parks (Banff, Yoho and Jasper) from 9/1 for ten days. Ian caught a cold during the trip to the Columbian Icefield, and he had just got better after a few weeks. And now I have finally found time to blog about the trip.

On day one upon arrival we were shocked by large crowd huddled around the car rental place. With Ian in one arm it was easier to get attention from the Hertz people, and eventually we got a good SUV and a short wait :)

The drive from Calgary to Banff was uneventful, however the sceneries were indeed breath taking. We spent more than CAD100 at the Safeway topping up adult's and baby's food, and diapers. No wonder the Canadian are rushing to the US for their purchase now that the currencies are equal in value, the Canadian goods are quite expensive in comparison to the state's.

On our first four days we stayed at the YWCA at Banff. It cost about CAD110 a night to stay at the private room of the hostel, and it was already the cheapest accommodation in Banff. Banff was full of international tourists, especially the Japanese. There was even shops and maps specially catered to the Japanese. The room was pretty basic and quite old, the good thing is that it had a private bath. Ian was quite afraid of the bath because it was small and dim, he was probably a little claustrophobic.

On the second day we went to the bow river falls in the morning, followed by the beautiful and grand Fairmont Banff Springs hotel. We also took the gondola to the top of Sulfur mountain, where the view took our breaths away. After that we went to the Cave and Basin, which was nothing more than a hot spring.

On Monday 9/3, we went to the beautiful Lake Minnewanka (meaning "Water of the Spirits" in Nakota - the Stoney Indian language), where we hiked to the Stewart Canyon with Ian enjoying the "ride" in the baby carrier. We had picnic lunch at yet another beautiful Lake Johnson, which reminded Pearl of the "Salem High Country" advertisement. Our last destination of the day was a hike to the two waterfalls at the Johston Canyon, which reminded us of the Watson Glen in the New York state.

On the next day we took the Highway 1 to Lake Louise, along the scenic highway there were many beautiful lakes and mountains, however the only wild life were birds and squirrels. We had a very expensive brunch at the famous Fairmont Chateau Lake Louise. The $60 brunch was probably my most expensive brunch ever, however the view of the emerald lake surrounded by mountains and glaciers was priceless. We went to Lake Moraine after that, which was even more scenic with a little less tourists.

On the following day, we ventured into Yoho national park, visiting the Kicking Horse pass (where some pioneer, Dr. James Hector was kicked by his horse and thus the name, how creative right?), the Great Divide and the lower spiral tunnel. We had yet another "tuna sandwich lunch" at Lake Emerald, where the water was truly emerald in color, reflecting the snow capped mountains and glaciers. We also visited the Takakkaw Falls (meaning very magnificent, in local Cree language), which was a powerful sight to see. We had to give some other points of interest a miss due to the inconvenience of carrying a one year old around. We stayed for two days at another "youth" hostel in Lake Louise, where there were more retired tourists than young people.

The next day we continued our journey northward, and visited the Columbia Icefield en route. We took the expensive yet interesting "Glacier tour" on the million dollar icefield explorer. With the wheels taller than me, we were able to travel all the way into the Athabasca Glacier. The wind chill at the ice field was bone crushing, however like typical Asian tourists, we kept taking pictures even though Ian was feeling too cold from the icy wind. So as a result of the careless parents, the pitiful baby fell sick after that. Ian was having runny nose, cough and developed his very first ear infection a few weeks later, and he had finally just been better today. From Lake Louise to Jasper, we visited many other beautiful look-outs, lakes and falls such as Herbert Lake, Crowfoot Glacier, Bow Lake, Num Ti Jah lodge, Peyto Lake (a must for all visitor!) and Bridal Veil fall, to name a few. Pearl and I agreed that the visit to the Lake Peyto was probably the highlight of the trip.

Jasper was a lovely and quaint little town, yet to be heavily contaminated by tourism, unlike Banff at the South. We stayed at a "home stay", which was a converted basement of an elderly couple, Mr. & Mrs. Crayston. It was the cheapest yet the most comfortable accommodation of the entire trip! We love Jasper so much that we regretted not planning to stay there longer. In Jasper we found a pharmacy where we could get some cold medicine for poor little Ian. We visited a few lakes nearby - Lake Pyramid, Patricia, Annette etc. Interestingly a lot of lakes here were named after women. By this time we were almost too saturated with lakes and mountains already.

From Jasper we visited Maligne lake, where we took yet another expensive boat tour to the "world famous" (apparently a lot of the "world famous" stuffs here were unknown to us prior to this trip) Spirit Island, and the view was absolutely stunning. After that we took a spiral, hilly and almost nauseating route to the top of the Edith Covell Mountain. The magnificent view of the glaciers at the top of the mountain was well worth the strenuous journey.

On our second last day we traveled South on the Icefield parkway, visiting Athabasca, Sunwapta and Tangle falls. After that we were almost blotted with the sight of water falls as well! Returning to the hustle and bustle of Banff was like returning to civilization. We had a good, decent meal at the Old Spaghetti Factory before heading to the rundown Bow Valley motel in Canmore.

On our very last day, we decided to have a good meal in Calgary before going back to Houston. Since we were so typically Chinese, we had to chose to go to the Chinatown out of so many other better choices! The "Chinatown" in Calgary was actually just a few blocks of Chinese restaurants , groceries and shops. Again we made the wrong choice of eating at a "sushi buffet" place, which made us missed Houston's food even more.

All in all, it was a very good trip with many good pictures taken. It was quite an experience for us since this was the first time we took Ian on a flight, and on a hiking trip! Too bad Ian was too young to remember all this...thank God for blogs and digital pictures!

Side note on photos: 2 bodies - Canon 350D and Nikon Coolpix 8400 (mostly at 24mm wide angle, and for the convenient short video clips), lenses: CZ 28mm f2.8, 35-70mm f3.4 and 80-200mm f4.0. I have been using the manual CZ lenses on digital Canon body for a while, and the results are superb. Too bad the Canon 5D is not quite affordable to me yet, as the full frame sensor will truly show the supreme quality of the German designed lenses!

Here comes the bunch of pictures:
Breathtaking view taken between Calgary and Canmore
Bow river, near Banff
Bow River Falls
Cascade Mountain, Banff
Banff Fairmont Hotel
Bow Lake
Bow River
View along Highway 1
Ian caught "吃脚脚"
Ford Edge, not a bad SUV at all...
In Banff, this is known as "Gondola", which is actually cable car
Finally some "mountain goats" on top of Sulfur Mount...Yay! "Wild" life!
View on top of Sulfur Mountain
You can see the town of Banff from here
An0ther view on top of Sulfur Mountain
The serene Lake Herbert, only in the morning you will get a perfect reflection
A still Lake Herbert
Ian at a picnic bench in "Salem High Country" - Lake JohnsonLake Minnewanka
Stewart Canyon, a short hike from Lake Minnewanka
Ian in his baby carrier, hunky dad at background (Johnston Canyon)
Ian's first encounter with the Dragon Fly...
Eee...怕怕...
This was our "picnic lunch" - tuna sandwich for many days...when you are hungry, even this taste heavenly!
The view of Lake Peyto from top, absolutely stunning!
Ian trying to pick a flower at Lake Louie, while me trying to pose like a stylish photographer in the background...Chateau Lake Louise, the unforgettable, most expensive $60 brunch I ever had...
It was a little chilly at Lake Louise, so Ian was dressed like little Jay Chow...yo...
Lake Louise is surrounded by snow capped mountain, and you can even see a glacier from here.
Ian was very friendly towards strangers throughout the entire trip, and he especially liked older people, probably he found their wrinkled face funny.
Lake Moraine from the top of a hillLake Moraine from the shoreline
Lake Moraine is surrounded by the "ten peaks"Tourists canoing on Lake Moraine
Another beautiful lake in the National ParkA cafe at Lake Emerald, Yoho National Park
Feeding Ian at Lake Emerald
Ian crawling on a table at Lake Emerald, where the water is truly Emerald in color.
A view of Athabasca Glacier
Apparently in 1992 the foot of the Glacier was here, and now it has retreated quite a distance away in just 9 years time.
A view of Edith Mountain from Lake Pyramid, Jasper town
Ice at the Edith pond, which is actually the puddle of water left by the glacier on Edith Mountain
Glacier at the foot of Edith Mountain
Waterfalls at Johnston CanyonAnother falls at Johston CanyonAfter a while all the falls start to look the same...
Sunwapta Waterfalls
Another view of Sunwapta Falls
Tangle Falls
Athabasca Falls
Takakkaw Falls, meaning "Walau eh, si peh tok kong ah" in Singlish...
These are the set of four favourite pictures of Ian we like very much
Maligne Lake
Maligne Lake cruise boat
Maligne Lake was known as the "lake of little fishes" by the local Indians
You can also rent a canoe on this beautiful lakeThe "world famous" Spirit Island
The mystical Spirit Island...
We spent $43 per person for the expensive cruise just to see this world famous Spirit Island, of course I must take more photos to make the money worth!
This is just another typical scenic view along the highway in the Canadian Rockies national parks
Finally we saw a wild life, the moose at one souvenir shop in Banff, Ian loved it so much he had to "kiss kiss" the moose.
One of the inexpensive yet excellent restaurant in the expensive, touristy town of Banff
Ian enjoying his Gerber baby food
The children playground at the Calgary airport, we found this airport to be the most children friendly airport we have ever been.

Friday, August 31, 2007

Happy Birthday Merdeka Baby

Dear son,

Happy Birthday to you. You are 1 today. It seems like yesterday when you came home with us from the hospital. You were born at 1:31 pm on a Thursday. You weighed 7 lbs 13 oz and measured 19 ¼” long. The doctor laid you on mama's chest as soon as you entered this world. You were still slimy as they had not cleaned you off before the doctor handed you to me. For the first time, mama felt this tremendous love at first sight for you. Tears immediately flooded my eyes. Your papa was in awe of your arrival and was a good coach throughout the 7 hours labor process.

You had very fair skin and looked pinkish when you were born. The first thing I noticed about you is your beautiful double eye-lid eyes. You cracked open your eyes and was so curious about your surrounding. The second thing I noticed about you is your high forehead which resembles your papa. You spent 3 days in the hospital nursery and came home on Saturday.

On the first night you came home, we were trying to get to know you and fulfill your needs that we only got 2 hours of sleep. Things improved and we got 4 hours of sleep on the second night. You were a relatively easy baby during the 1st month although you had to be fed often (sometimes every hour). Your gas problem started during the 2nd month and became better some time around the 3rd or 4th month. Your eczema set in sometime around the 3rd and 4th month. At 9 month, you were diagnosed allergic to milk, eggs and peanuts.

You were able to sit unsupported at 7 months, crawled at 8 months and cruised at 9 months. You started eating semi-solid foods at 6 months. Your first teeth - lower central incisors - came in around 8 months. You waved bye-bye at 10 months. You took your first step unsupported a few weeks before your first birthday.

You were a “hand” baby because you constantly have to be held. You were very sensitive to music and love to be sung to. Your favorite song when you were younger is Edelweiss. You would give us a big smile or stop crying every time we sang this song to you. You don’t like classical music and love heavy rock music. At 8 months you danced to beats and music by shaking your head from side to side and up and down. At 11 months you sang with me when I asked you to (though your singing comprises of only about 2 notes :)

Last week, we saw improvement in your eczema. Thanks to our families and friends for praying for Ian’s eczema. We hope you will outgrow your eczema soon.

Today is your first ever birthday, and we are extremely proud of you. It hasn't been an easy one year, but somehow you managed to pull through under the care of inexperienced first time parents, and weathered through hives, eczema, cold, virus infection, allergic reaction etc. Though you are the cause of our heavy eye bags, sleepless nights, movieless/dateless one year, reduced bank account (thanks, Elecare and Triceram!), your mischievous smile and adoring hugs and kisses made it all worth the while.

We may feel tired and frustrated at times, however never once did we regret having you in our lives and we thank God for every day that you are healthy and happy baby. All in all, you have given us a wonderful year, and lots of training on our patience and functioning without adequate night time sleep. Our love for you grows fonder every day.

Thank God for bringing you into this world and you are such a blessing to us and bring us so much joy. We hope that God will always be with you.

We love you son, and happy first birthday...oh yeah and happy Merdeka day!

Love,
Papa & Mama

p/s: Ian's birtday party pictures (thanks to Uncle Kok Meng and his trusty Canon 28-70L f2.8)

M&M baby
Wide Eye Pretty Boy
Surrounded by aunties
What's with that big L Lens?
Present Opening Time!
Eee? What's this?
Yeah! I am the master of ball-ball toy!
Delicious bday cake... Hmm...more present! Cute or not?
Eh? What's that?
...ok ok no ball jokes please...
Happy with loads of attentions!
Playing with Princess Meredith & Aunt Hsing
Mmm...my special cup cake made by mama (without milk product)
Puzzled...
Hee hee...
Little professional
Cake cutting time!
Hey look what've I got...
Puppy eyes...
A little sad that the party had to end...

Wednesday, August 22, 2007

Battling eczema

One day, while surfing the net for more eczema related information, I came across this website and realized that I have not been using steroid correctly. Knowing all the side effects of steroids, I used it “over sparingly” on Ian. As a result, his eczema never completely clear up and I have to use steroid on a daily basis. So, I started using it correctly, as per the recommended amount and his eczema is better but still does not clear completely. Nonetheless, I have tried many types of steroids and Derma-Smooth eczema oil is the one that works best for Ian. http://www.patient.co.uk/showdoc/27000764/

As much as I would like avoid using steroid, I really can’t. It is a double-edged sword. If I use it, there may be side-effects but his skin condition is under control. If I don’t, his skin will deteriorate which will affect his mood, his feeding and sleeping routine. I have gone one day free of steroid and his eczema will flare-up the very next day. My heart aches when I see his flare ups. There is really no cure for eczema, one has to just outgrow it (some babies never outgrow eczema and has to live with it for the rest of their lives). I can only control it and pray very hard every night for God’s healing power.

I have been reading quite a lot about steroid free alternatives and here are some things that I am doing. Share with me if any of you know about other alternatives.

-I am bathing him in a bath oil called Robathol. The oil disperse in the water as an emulsion, I think it is pretty good but not very oily though. Sometimes, I would rub some organic olive oil and sea salt mixture on his body as soap. I never used soap at all.
-I am using Vanicream (http://www.psico.com/) and Aquaphor. So far, I find these two creams to be the best. I have tried also Aveeno, Eucerin, Vaseline and other store brands. Cetaphil is a really good cream but it is not oily enough for his body. I use that on his face because it is lighter and won’t clog his pores. Sometimes, his face would flare up and I would put a thick layer of Cetaphil on his face at night and it would clear up in the morning. Sometimes, the redness is too much for Cetaphil to clear up, then I have to use Desonide (steroid).
-I recently started giving him flaxseed oil. I read that it helps with eczema (maybe not a quick solution but hope it will help in the long run). Plus, I cannot give Ian fish yet because or his allergic nature. I will have to wait till he is older and get him tested before I let him try fish. -I recently discovered a cream called Tri-Ceram. It is a barrier repair cream and clinical studies have proven that it helps with eczema. It is expensive but worth a try. I have been using this on Ian for a couple weeks now and have seen some very slight improvement, perhaps from this cream.
-Probiotics is becoming more and more popular and I have asked my doctors and they all said it will do no harm but may or may not help with eczema. I have been giving this to Ian for a couple weeks.
-I have also tried all kinds of anti-histamines (Claritin, Benadryl, Singulair, Zrytec ) and now trying Allegra to make his itch less so that he can sleep better at night. I think they all help but he still itches a lot.
-I am feeding him organic foods as much as I can.

I can only try to prevent him from scratching but sometimes, he still manages to hurt himself from scratching.
All in all, I have to thank God because I have seen some slight improvement in his eczema over the last month.

Ian is turning one in 9 days. My baby is all grown up looks like a toddler now. Here are some pictures...


Curious look...

Found something in a paper bag
Getting the "something" from the bag

Got it...he continued to explore what's in the box
That's my baby


Friday, August 10, 2007

Struggle of A Working Mom

Before I leave for work every morning, I have to spend some time with Ian before he sends me off with a happy wave goodbye. That is his way of getting some assurance from me that I will be home for him on that evening. This morning, my alarm went off at 6 am. I shut if off and went right back to sleep. The next thing I heard was Ian's cry at 7 am and I had overslept for an hour. So I hurried up and held Ian while I brushed my teeth and changed for work. Instead of changing his diaper and applying his layers of lotion for him while having our morning "baby chat", I had to hand Ian to his nanny to do all that. He was upset and cried because I had to cut our cuddling time short this morning. When I was ready, I held him again for a last time before I leave. He complained to me and tried to tell me that I should not do that again next time by shaking his head, his eyes still teary. Before his tears dried, I had to hand him over to the nanny again because I had to leave. He burst out in tears and protested. I went off to work with a heavy heart and felt sad about leaving Ian this way.
As I was driving to work, the daily does of NPR morning news went right in and out my ear. All I heard was a bunch of people talking from the radio. My struggle between being a stay home mom and being a working mom grew ever more intense. Although I like my job very much, I cannot do my best because my heart is not entirely there. What if I have to travel? I try to keep the lowest possible profile these days to lower any chances of traveling. Why am I still working? Why am I defying what I can do really well in, which is to be a full-time caretaker for my baby?
Anyway, enough griping, picture time!
Ian likes to point to "buh!" a.k.a. "bird"
Excited to see his own picture...
Kissing the cute baby in the picture (himself actually)...
Happy to find "treasures"...Smile for mama's Canon 350D...Another Canon moment...